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How does one succeed in life?

12.06.2025 11:20

How does one succeed in life?

Hangs out with loser friends.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

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An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

I can’t get any girl I want, but I can just get some not my type of girls, so I feel I’m so ugly. What should I do?

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Making more friends is a goal.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

What were your fantasies when you reached puberty?

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

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Living to your full potential is a goal.

Do not set goals—set systems.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

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That's it for today.

Does not procrastinate.

Ask yourself:

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Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

What I need from you?

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

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First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

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In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Why am I so jealous towards couples? Why am I tired of being single and feel my life is over?

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

How do you identify a woman player?

Procrastinates a lot.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

How many women have accidentally pooped their pants and became turned on afterwards?

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Why do people think Justin Bieber is worse than Joseph Stalin?

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

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Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Why do so many FtM people act like MtF people don't exist and what the hell am I supposed to do as an MtF person?

Losing 20kg is a goal.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

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Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.